Pleasant Hill Cohousing
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Meet Our Members
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Elaine & Isaac
Elaine: My son, Isaac and I have lived here at Pleasant Hill Cohousing since it "opened" in October, 2001 and now, five years later, I can’t think of any place else I’d rather be. Before moving to PHCH, I had familiarized myself with cohousing by joining the cohousing.org e-list, and even starting a couple of coho groups in the Monterey Bay area. When it became clear that cohousing was not going to happen there, I searched for the "right" community to move in with. I knew that the cohousing concept was a fit for me, but that finding a community where at least most of the members "felt good" to me was equally important - considering the kind of communication it takes to successfully maintain a community built on consensus and, yes, even compromise. PHCH has been that community - a place where we may not all be best friends, but a place where we all strive to be best neighbors. Personally, I can’t ask for anything more! My experience here has been enriching and inspiring. The people at PHCH are our loving extended family - with all its implications!
After a 20 year teaching career, I now teach special education part-time in Lafayette. I also act and sing a little on the side. I’m a longtime member of the Landscape Committee and currently serving on the Executive Committee.
Isaac: Hi, my name is Isaac aka "Crazy Boy". I like living here at cohousing because at cohousing there are kids to play with, adults to chat with, and a swimming pool (with a hot tub)! I’m 11-1/2 years old. I go to Pleasant Hill Middle School and I’m into WWE (World Wrestling Entertainment). The sports I play are wrestling, baseball, basketball, football, swimming, tennis and a little bit of soccer.
Sunshine and Whispers: Meow! Sometimes we don’t get along too great with each other, but we absolutely LOVE all the humans in this community (especially our human brother, Isaac)! They pet us and talk to us. They also take care of us and feed us when our pets, Elaine and Isaac, are gone on vacation. They even sit on our couch and watch TV with us. We love cohousing!
![]() Jannette & Jordan My name is Jordan and I am 11 years old. I live with my mom in this really cool place where everyone knows each other and kids get to play outside by themselves. The other great part is that my mom gets to hang out with other moms (and dads) when I take a swim in the pool. She misses her family who all live in Holland, but living with lots of other families makes up for it. I love to take my boogie board and pretend I'm riding the waves in the ocean. I guess I can always use it as a floatie if I need to! Aside from swimming, I like to ride my bike, especially along the Iron Horse Trail with my friend Lucien who lives in cohousing too. I go to school in Oakland, which is kind of far, but I don't mind the drive because I get to go home to a wonderful place. ![]() Jean I'm Jean, and I'm a newer neighbor. I moved in last Spring after literally 20 years of fantasizing about living in cohousing some day. Some day has finally come, and the actual experience, delightfully enough, is surprisingly similar to my fantasies. I'm a foodie and a baby hog and find many playmates with whom I can indulge both of these passions. It's thrilling to accompany little Maya, a neighbor baby, as she cuts new teeth, formulates first words, and climbs proudly up the slide -- just days after taking her first steps! All at once, she's busting loose! What a joy to be here to witness one another's milestones large and small. When I'm not cooking common meals, I'm deepening promising new friendships and serving on the Connection and Conflict Resolution Team -- always fulfilling, occasionally grueling. Maya's on the Conflict Resolution Team, too! Outside of PHCH, I'm an interfaith minister and end-of-life chaplain into yoga, writing, meditation, Interplay, hikin', campin', swimmin' & SoulCollage. |
![]() Jan & Ellen We joined PHCH towards the end of 2007. We were among the founding members of Cobb Hill CoHousing in Hartland Vermont. Between our lives at Cobb Hill and our life at Pleasant Hill, we lived in San Diego, Sri Lanka and San Francisco. For the bulk of the last 20 years, we lived in Vermont. Ellen's background is rather diverse... having worked as the Executive Director for the Center for a New American Dream, the Ben and Jerry's Foundation -- and before that as a psychotherapist. She has also worked with the Waitt Family Foundation in San Diego. In 2003 we moved to Sri Lanka to work with the Nonviolent Peaceforce and lived there for 3 years. As we thought about our return to the USA, we felt (well, mostly Ellen) that it was time to leave VT. As one of our children (Serena) was finishing her degree at SFSU, we decided to "land" in the City while we regrouped about where in the USA we wanted to re-plant our roots, and then we found Pleasant Hill! Jan's background prior to working with the Nonviolent Peaceforce is with the Karuna Center for Peacebuilding, and the Conflict Transformation Across Cultures Programme. Prior to that Jan worked with perpetrators and survivors of trauma and violence. Between us we have three grown kids: Rachel, 28, in Chicago, Serena, 24, living in San Francisco and Adam, 28, in Western MA. We have one 19 year-old cat (Fashion) who seems to enjoy a rather sedentary life. Currently Ellen works for Give2Asia - (an offshoot of The Asia Foundation) in San Francisco, and Jan continues to work for the Nonviolent Peaceforce (working from home) in the Programme Department of NP. Jan loves to sail, do yoga, and play racquetball and Frisbee. Ellen loves to paint, walk, and dance and practices Buddhism. We have a quarter share of a 10-meter boat on the Bay, and enjoy taking friends out to explore life on the water. More on Jan's website. ![]() Jeff & Lynn Jeff: I have been interested in cohousing for many years and have now finally, recently, (we moved in in August of 2006) arrived! I enjoy playing with the kids, jumping in the pool and hot tub, and having unplanned moments. I work as a software engineer and systems manager at UC Berkeley's Space Sciences Laboratory. Along with cohousing I love backpacking, music, and scuba diving (in warm waters!). |

Marian, Harry & Emily
We were the first family to move in - when the community was still under construction. Although leaving San Francisco was hard for all of us, we are glad to be here. Harry still commutes to the city for his job with the Mayor's Office of Housing & Community Development. Marian is a high school librarian in Orinda. We go to the city to see friends and theatre, and we're glad the BART commute is so easy. We love the weather out here--sitting on the patio in the evening, seeing stars, fall leaves--and knowing our neighbors.
Harry and Marian enjoy the mix of community and privacy, spur-of-the-moment social interactions, and community "traditions" like the annual Day of the Dead festival, and Mt. Diablo group camping trip. Emily, the oldest "child" at 20, is away at college in Olympia, WA. She loves to return and visit the neighbors, help cook common meals, and take care of community animals and children. She plans to eventually live in cohousing herself.
Harry maintains the Decision Log, and likes to tackle special fix-it projects around the community. Marian is on the Risk Management Team, the HomeBase Committee, the Executive Committee, and, amazingly, has learned to cook meals for 40-50 people!

Sharon
I've been a resident of Pleasant Hill Cohousing since April 2007. Moving here was a great idea, as I have found a community of like-minded people, and common meals as well as various community celebrations are a delightful way to get to know neighbors better. I serve on the Landscape Committee, and I love the sense of accomplishment when a work party gets lots of outdoor work completed. PHCH has beautiful grounds, but they require a lot of careful maintenance.
I work in downtown San Francisco, so the access to BART is wonderful. I am the development director for the Pacific Region of the National Parks Conservation Association. NPCA is the only national organization working to protect and enhance America's National Parks for present and future generations. It's great, busy work, and I am proud to be part of the NPCA team advocating on behalf of our nation's treasures.
I have two grown children, both living in the Bay Area. My daughter particularly enjoys visiting in the summer, when it is foggy in San Francisco, and she can sit by the pool here and enjoy the warmth.

Sheryl
Back in 2001, I was beginning to feel more the isolation of city life after a decade in lovely San Francisco. Lucky for me, that’s when I stumbled across a flyer about then-forming Pleasant Hill Cohousing. One meeting and one potluck later, I was hooked! I was attracted to cohousing because I wanted to live in a place where I know my neighbors – infants, seniors, and all ages between - and we work together to make our little neighborhood home. I have not been disappointed. My favorite things about living in community are common meals, knowing everyone – especially kids - and both fun and work with my neighbors. Throw in the unexpected bonus of opportunities to grow, to give to and receive from each other, and I'm one happy cohouser!

Sue
I'm retired now for 8 years and I am settling in nicely to what I thought would be a relaxed lifestyle. Of course, because I am who I am that is not the case. I am a potter and we have a small but very complete studio here at Lisa Lane Commons so I am there whenever I have time because that is what truly makes me happy. Because I have 2 children and 3 grown grandchildren who have varied and exciting lives, I take time often to interact with them as they all live close by. I am active here as an officer and active on a couple of committees. I enjoy the little ones, especially the babies, so I like to use a slice of time for them. I hike when I can and there are many places in the Bay Area to do that. I am lucky enough to have a little income from my pottery and so I can travel and I do often. We are so lucky to have a theater a couple of blocks from here that shows foreign and art films so I can frequently indulge my other favorite leisure activity.
Susan
Living in cohousing is pretty much what I expected. After 8 years, there have been a few surprises (some good, some hard) but I'm very happy here and I can't imagine living anywhere else. I get a lot of pleasure out of being part of a community; I feel that I am "known" in a way I've never experienced before. Especially wonderful are the close friendships I have with some of the children which for me, a non-parent, could only happen in this environment.

I work at UC Berkeley where I take care of the Career Center website and manage other web-related projects. I like to sing (with the Mango Lassies, our accapella group), dance (especially WCS and salsa), watch movies, be outdoors, and hang out with my friends.
I'm one of the assistant bookkeepers and a member of the Finance Advisory Team and the Outreach Committee which, among other things, means I'm the contact person for outside inquiries, I lead our monthly tours, and I'm the webmistress for this website.

Yehudit
I'm a professional violinist: classical (performing with the San Francisco Ballet Orchestra, Fremont Symphony, and other Bay Area groups) and jazz. I perform regularly as part of a violin/cello jazz duo called Different Strokes. I've recorded 3 jazz CDs. Other interests include hiking, vegetarian cooking, and the group-process aspect of community building.
I found out about cohousing about 15 years ago, and knew it was the way I wanted to live. I worked for several years with a group in Marin County (where I lived for 30 years), trying without success to create cohousing there. When the Pleasant Hill group found our site, I joined, realizing that it was my best chance to make my cohousing dreams real -- even though it meant relocating to a part of the Bay Area that was wholly new to me. I was one of the first people to move in when our homes were completed, and have lived here ever since.
I am an active member of our Financial Advisory Team, Facilitation and Decision-Making Committee, and Garden Committee. I also do the bookkeeping for our Homeowners' Association. I am a past member of our Connection and Conflict Resolution Team, and remain active in facilitating conflict resolution.
Over the years I have lived here, I have had some difficult moments, but no regrets. I like and respect all of my neighbors, and feel that I can be real with them. I love the spontaneous social activities that happen because we're all here. I am fascinated and challenged by the consensus decision-making process. I continue to hold to the vision of living in a creative, resourceful community where there is a commitment to resolve conflict peacefully, transcend differences, and create win-win solutions. As an older single woman, I also enjoy living in a multi-generational community that includes children.